Social Exchange Theory

Social exchange theory is defined as weighing the cost and reward of a relationship and seeking out beneficial ones, in chapter thirteen of our textbook. Research shows that in the initial stages of marriage, couples tend to not concern themselves as much with proper give and take. However as the relationship progresses, give and take becomes more essential. That is an understatement. With my wife and I, the real test began as we started a family. Our three children added not only more stress to our relationship but also a considerable increase in houswork. Since my wife and I both work outside the home, a equitable split in domestic duties has been essential to our continued marital bliss; fortunately the children continue to grow and have started to take over some of the cleanup.

Uncertainty Reduction Theory

Uncertainty reduction is a theory outlined in chapter thirteen of our textbook suggesting we draw inferences initially from physical data observed. It can help to understand the behaviors of others, and is currently being used by the United States armed forces as a way to better understand the culture differences in the Middle East. Obviously appearances, language, religion and culture are strikingly different and understanding these differences can be critical to safe operations in the urban battlefield. Since currently most interaction in Iraq is made through third parties, the ability to differentiate friend from foe may save a soldiers life.