Interpersonal Attraction

Interpersonal attraction, is defined in our textbook as a desire to interact with someone based on a variety of factors: usually social, physical or task related. Nice Guys Finish First, by Hara Estroff Marano, offers great advice to nice men looking for that special lady. There is a fine line between conceit and confidence, and I’m not sure which one I have, but I have a lot of one of them. Showing yourself to be interesting can be the most important factor to attraction. If you are boring, no one will want to talk to you, least of all an attractive young lady. In my own personal situation, my wife asked me out. Prior to that, I honestly never noticed her. The self-confidence she possessed that day sparked a fire in me that, hopefully, will burn forever.